You’ve begged, pleaded, and promised to change your ways.

If he’s already started dating someone else you’ve tried to break them up to get him back.

If you’ve already done these things then you’ve made several steps backwards in your attempts to win your ex boyfriend back.

Pause a moment and think “Did anything I’ve tried work so far to get him back?”, of course they haven’t.

Behaving childish and scheming does not put anyone into the good behavior books… you will win no points with that type of behavior and you’ll just sour the future possibilities that you seek.

Have you been stalking him? Following him on dates, or when he’s hanging out with his friends?

Have you been showing up in places where he appears?

Stop these behaviors now! Right now!

The next time you see him, where ever you are, go ahead and say your “hello” but keep it short, and get out fast. Now more stalking behavior even if it was just chance that brought you both to the same place. Be nice, polite and leave.

When you want to get your exboyfriend back, doing what isn’;t expoected is the hey to showing him that you have changed your ways, that jealousy and clinginess is no longer part of your personality.

After a week or so of this changed personality you can call him, keep it short, just to say hi and ask how he’s doing. No long pauses, no trying to back him into a corner to say something he doesn’t mean. “Hello, how are you… good bye”.

You’ve called because you miss him and want to check up on him. That’s it. Period. Get off the phone now or you’ll just be proving that you cannot change, that you are unwilling for time to help bring him back to you.

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