Breakups happen - watch for these things

Now that we got that out of the way, you may be wondering if your relationship is headed in the wrong direction. While you can’t always be sure until you’re told face-to-face, there are a few end of relationship breakup signals you should be aware of.

The surest signals are changes in your mate’s behavioral patterns. A small change here or there probably doesn’t mean much. What you need to be aware of are big changes in habits and behavior. Do they all of a sudden start talking a lot more? Are they fidgety around you? Do they use stronger, harsher words than they used to?

Emotional distancing is one of those things that’s hard to quantify, and even harder to explain properly. In essence, if you notice your mate isn’t as warm an affectionate as they used to be, or if they seem to be somewhere else even when you’re in the same room, that could be a sign of things coming to an end. You may recognize that the closeness is gone, but you’re not quite able to pinpoint why.

Spending less time together is one of the classic end of relationship breakup signals. Now, that doesn’t mean you have to spend every minute of every day together. But if you used to go places together and “hang out” frequently, and now you’re lucky to see each other for an hour a day, that’s a strong indicator of trouble just around the corner.

If there is an observable difference in how much you are arguing (more or less) that is another signal that your status as a couple is about ready to go through some changes. While you may welcome fewer arguments, it can be a symptom of a reduced desire to work things out.

One of the trickier signs is if your partner starts being much more romantic than they ever were before. A lot of times this is done to cover up feelings of guilt. It should be noted that this guilt doesn’t always derive from having an affair, it can also stem from their thinking about leaving. Regardless, it can be a way of compensating, or it could be for good reasons.

Now, it should be noted that any or all of these signals being present may not mean anything as far as your relationship is concerned. It could be a sign of other problems. Talk to your significant other, remaining calm as you do so, and try to figure out what the underlying problem is.

Any one of these end of relationship breakup signals could mean the end of being together is near, or it may not mean anything at all. The best thing to do if you spot a potential problem is to look at other potential warning signs. If you start noticing a lot of your significant other’s actions are out of place, then it is probably time to confront your mate to find out how they’re feeling and what their thoughts about your relationship are.

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