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September 12th, 2011Broken Heart, Clean Breakups, Get Back Together, Jealousy, Marriage In Crisis, Other Stuff, Relationship In Crisis, Relationships, Stop My Divorce, Things To DoWhen you’ve gone through a recent breakup and you really want the other person back in your life you need to follow these three rules:
1. Take stock of your life, do you really have to offer what the other person needs?
2. Look into your own future and decide if there really is room in your life for someone else to be with you and have their own life too (are you that controlling that this can’t happen?).
3. Seek professional, arms length advice about moving past your breakup and into the future you deserve, with or without your ex (The book “Magic of Making Up is immediately available and can get you on your feet again, helping you to decide your future and the type of relationship you need in your life.)This topic and more is discussed in the Magic of Making Up ebook. Learn the right and wrong things to do to get your ex back here or how to move on from a failed relationship.
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June 13th, 2011Broken Heart, Relationship In CrisisAfter a day, a month, maybe even after a year, we’ll both be changed people.
I feel sadness that you could not understand what your actions did to me and that we’ll never see what how beautiful our relationship could have been if we could have stayed together.
You broke me down and then tried to destroy me. I had to leave to save myself. Your actions has results even if this isn’t what you expected or ultimately wanted.
I wish I could have saved you too but you did not want that.
I can only hope you find in another person what was possible with us if you could have seen what you were doing through my eyes.
This topic and more is discussed in the Magic of Making Up ebook. Learn the right and wrong things to do to get your ex back here
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April 14th, 2011Broken Heart, Get Back TogetherGoing through a break up is never easy. In fact, it almost always sucks (to be blunt). Still, in a way you are just relieved to be done with it. Or so you thought. Then as some time passes, you start to realize that you still miss your ex. Oh no! What are you going to do? This isn’t supposed to happen, is it? The two of you are broken up, and that’s that. Let’s take a deeper look at the issue, and you will see that things may not be quite as bad as they seem right now.
So, you miss your ex, but is that a bad thing? That really is the question, and getting to the bottom of it will determine how well you deal with your feelings for your ex.
The first thing you need to figure out is whether you really miss your ex or not. Remember, your emotions are going to be running high, and your thinking won’t always be clear after a break up. You may think you miss your ex, but the reality is that you may miss having somebody to hang out with. Or maybe you are afraid you will never find love again. Neither of those things are really about your ex, they are about you, and that’s okay. The main thing is that you get to the root of what your true feelings are.
Assuming you really do miss your ex, you have a decision to make: should you get over them, or try to get back with your ex? You may have a gut reaction to that question, but you don’t want to act on it too quickly. There is no wrong answer here, but you do need to think about it carefully.
If you choose to get on with your life, then you will need to work through your emotions. Yes, you miss your ex, but now it’s time to move on. It won’t be easy, but you need to do it if you ever want to be happy again. If you can’t seem to do it on your own, then talk to a friend, member of the clergy, or a counselor. Each of them can help in their own way, and you’ll be glad once it’s done.
On the other hand, you may decide that you want to try to get your ex back. This brings on a whole new set of challenges, but it can be done. Luckily, there has been a lot of information written about how to do this. So, rather than going off on a whole different tangent, suffice it to say that you can easily find out how to get your ex back if that’s what you have decided to do.
Just because you miss your ex, doesn’t mean you have to live with that feeling. Though it may not seem possible to you now, you can get through this. You have a few options, but the key is to take action. It will take some effort, but it will be worth it once you’re happy again.
This topic and more is discussed in the Magic of Making Up ebook. Learn the right and wrong things to do to get your ex back here
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April 10th, 2011Broken HeartLove can be cruel sometimes as is evident in some relationships. If mending broken hearts seems to be a reoccurring theme in your life then you need to sit back and reevaluate what is happening to cause this vicious cycle to occur in the first place.
No one likes having their heart broken, but they especially don’t like for it to happen repeatedly. The bad part is when someone doesn’t know that it is coming. That makes the pain even worse. When this happens the first step is to look back and see if there were any warning signs.
Sometimes signs are evident to others, but the person that it is happening to is oblivious to what is going on. This might be because they are preoccupied with the situation or they are just trying to ignore it in the hopes that it will go away. Were there any signs that this was going to occur? If so, you have to find out why they occurred in the first place.
Even though losing love is hard it is not the end of the world. Undoubtedly, the one who is hurt will hear this from others, but it is, in fact, the truth. This is a time to be with others and be surrounded with friends and family. This is not the time to hear people bashing your partner, unless it is obviously justified. The key here is to get out of the house. Sitting around just invites in pity and sorrow, which is something that is not going to help at this point.
The sooner that the hurt individual gets back out into the world the easier the recovery time will be. Letting things languish only drags out the pain. They should never try to contact the other person since further rejection will only open up old wounds. If it is meant to be they will see the separation as an eye-opening experience.
After you have had some time to heal then the last step is to sit down and see what you have learned. Were you too needy? Did you rush the relationship and possibly scare them away? Or were they possibly the wrong person for you? If you think about it enough the answer will present itself to you. Have a good friend sit down with you and talk it over. Sometimes a different view can bring things into perspective. Just remember: mending broken hearts is not easy, but it is possible.
This topic and more is discussed in the Magic of Making Up ebook. Learn the right and wrong things to do to get your ex back here
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April 9th, 2011Broken Heart, Clean BreakupsGoing through a break up is never an enjoyable experience.
Even if the two of you split up on friendly terms, there will be some negative feelings. You will feel hurt, angry, guilty and confused. Such emotions are to be expected, but there is one feeling that may be harder to deal with, and that is how to get over someone you love. Don’t worry, all of this is completely normal.
Before you start trying to get over your ex, you need to make sure that’s what you really want to do. Your emotions will be running high after a break up, and it’s easy to confuse one feeling for another. So, it’s very possible that the reason you can’t get over them is because you don’t want to…you just think you do.
Yes, it can be confusing, so you need to calm down first. You need to let the dust of the broken relationship settle for a while before you make any permanent decisions. There is always a chance that you will realize that you want to try to work things out. However, for the rest of this article, we will assume that you have already thought it through and now you need to know how to get over someone you love.
Getting your ex out of your mind can be tricky, but it is possible. A lot of amateurs in giving out relationship advice will tell you to focus on all of the bad stuff your ex did. The thinking here is that hating them will erase them from your memory, but the opposite is true. It will only amplify their memory and it’s not fair to your ex.
A better way is to forgive your ex for all of the bad stuff they may have done.
This will take away any of the power they still seem to have over you. It will also allow you to start moving forward with your own life, which takes us to the next step.While you won’t be able to completely erase the memory of your ex from your mind, you can overpower it for a while. The way to do this is to go out and life your life to the fullest extent possible. The more things you have to occupy your time, and occupy your mind, the less space there will be for you to think about your former partner.
Finally, when it comes to how to get over someone you love you need to be realistic. It isn’t about forgetting about them 100%. After all, if you had good memories together, you should be able to look back on those in the future. But, you need to be able to move forward, so it’s important to get them out of your mind, especially right after the break up. Then, after a bit of time goes by you can start to think about them in a healthy, well-adjusted manner; without it making you feel upset.
This topic and more is discussed in the Magic of Making Up ebook. Learn the right and wrong things to do to get your ex back here
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September 7th, 2010Broken Heart, Get Back Together, Other Stuff, Things To Do… And it works!!!
Yes, A YouTube video channel helps a woman reconnect with her love and she wins him back!
Watch the story unfold below!
News about “The Froglet Diaries”
This topic and more is discussed in the Magic of Making Up ebook. Learn the right and wrong things to do to get your ex back here
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