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Breaking Up & Making Up
BREAKING UP
Any fool can break up with his girlfriend. A few harsh words like these will do it:
- You’re a bitch
- I’ve just been dating you until someone better came along
- I never loved you
- You’re terrible in bed
- I hate kissing you
- I hate the way you talk about things
- I hate your laugh
- I hate how you dress
- You’re fat
- You’re short…
The list goes on, right guys?
Of course, the all-time killer way to break up is just to say to her “I just want to be your friend from now on”. And then you’re done.Now you’re single again…
But did you make a mistake?What if, a few days later, you realize how much you really do love your girlfriend? What do you do then? How can you get your love back?
How do you get your girlfriend back?
What can you do?MAKING UP
One of the hardest things a guy will ever do is to make up with a girl that he just broke up with.
Hey, we all make mistakes, right?So, how do we set things right? How do we get our life back into order? How do we get that great girl back into our lives again?
THE HOW-TO GUIDE
The first thing you need to do is: calm down and take a step back. Give your (now ex-) girlfriend a day or two to see how things are in her life, now that she’s single.
Don’t wussy out and start crawling back to her, even if it was her that broke up with you, or you broke up with her… you need to relax, take a couple of days, and figure out what really was good, and what was bad, about your relationship with her.
Don’t be calling her, texting her, emailing her, trying to squeeze information out of her friends… for these first couple of days after your breakup, do nothing but live your life without her.
Trust me, she’s hurting because of this change just as much as you are, but don’t allow this hurt to make you do something stupid that chases her away even more.
By NOT talking to her during these first couple of days apart, you are giving her time to miss you. And this will work in your favor.
Again, trust me.
