Jealousy

The green color of the love/hate relationship.

She loves you because you’re popular — she hates you because you’re popular.

You love her because she’s great… and other guys seem to hang around her because they know she’s great too…

… what to do, what to do?

More relationships are broken up because of jealousy than most other issues.

Personal insecurities…

The reason for this is that people are insecure.

They aren’t comfortable with themselves, they aren’t comfortable with the situation they are in.

Usually it’s a self-esteem issue, they believe that they “just aren’t good enough” for the great things (including you) in their lives.

“I am unworthy!” is the cry inside.

That is the usual basis for jealousy (unless you’ve messed around with someone you shouldn’t have… but that isn’t jealousy, that’s anger, and the topic of another article).

And here you are…

So, here you are, single, either by your own choice, or hers, and you don’t like this at all… after all, she was.. is… a great girl, right?

Who in their right mind would let her get away, right?

And yet, you’re on that road, letting her go for good.

NOT cool.

Making jealousy work for you…

Life throws us a lot of curves and knowing how to deal with them is the hallmark of being a capable, reliable and trustworthy person.

And if you want to get your girlfriend back you need to understand one thing: women get jealous.

When you can continue with your own life, when you can start dating again, when you can show yourself able to date other women… well, that’s when she will become jealous of those other women.

Her little green streak will be come a huge stripe down her back, across her eyes, inside her head.

And she will MISS YOU!

And it’s at THAT moment that she will do everything within her power to win you back… just as if you had planned everything out yourself.

Jealousy… a guy’s best friend in getting his girlfriend back!